Our Families in Faith parishes are close-knit. So, when a member passes away, we all feel the loss. Anyone who has lost a family member knows it can be a difficult time, with so many details that require attention. But a dedicated group at Sacred Heart and St. Michael’s is there to make sure that the family doesn’t feel this loss alone. Members of the Visitation Supper Ministry step in with food for the family between the viewing of the body and the wake. It’s just one less detail the family has to worry about. The ministry typically serves anywhere from 5 to 75 people.
Jean Herrera helped start — and continues to lead — the Visitation Supper Ministry at St. Michael’s.
“All of us on the volunteer list have had a family member pass away,” Jean says. “We know how hard it can be.”
A main course, salads, and dessert are all ready to go, so the family can eat before the wake. Sometimes, family members will come and eat during the wake. Children can color or run around a bit. It gives everyone a short reprieve from the stress.
“It’s beautiful to be able to serve someone’s family after they are gone,” Jean says. “It’s
humbling.”
One woman served by this ministry at
St. Michael’s was so touched that she signed up as a volunteer. Jean notes that the ministry had family come from out of town for the wake, and they are incredibly appreciative.
“People are often overwhelmed by the food,” Jean says. “We know it makes a big difference, and we all love doing this.”
Sacred Heart’s ministry is led by Mickey Smyth — Midge Johnson, who has passed away, helped get this started.
“This leaves one less thing for the family to worry about during the wake,” Mickey says. “We all enjoy doing this for families.”
This ministry gives volunteers a chance to visit with people in town for the services whom they maybe haven’t seen in years. At most funerals, Jean, Mickey, and the volunteers know the deceased. This ministry is a beautiful way to step in and serve their family.
Mickey and Jean are thankful to the committed stewards who make this ministry happen. They are always willing to step up to be there for families.
“I like to think it’s a way to show small-town hospitality and good Christian kindness,” Jean says. “No one leaves hungry, that’s for sure.”
To get involved in the Visitation Suppers Ministry at Sacred Heart, contact Mickey Smyth at 308-223-0084; at St. Michael’s, contact Jean Herrera at 308-550-1296.
